She loved mini-golfing for the first nine holes, after that the novelty wore off and she got bored (totally an age thing). She could not see the hole from the putter point, but as she seemed to catch on quickly that she just needed to swing at the ball and send it somewhere down the green. That became her goal. Eventually tse would get close of enough to the hole that she could sink it. We chose a yellow ball for her figuring it would have the highest contrast, plus it happens to be her favorite color at the moment. She did great and we had fun. She over shot the ball pretty often but we simply didn't count those against her. That may be partially a vision thing, partially an age thing and partially just normal, because we all do it at one time or another.
Monday, May 26, 2014
Mini Golf
I am posting Mercy's first time mini-golfing. I have two reasons for such a simple post. One is because my oldest daughter took lots of great pictures and I wanted to share them. My second is because I not only want to share life from an adoption stand point, but to also share life with a child who has Albinism. I want anyone who is considering adoption to see that life is normal (well if there is such a thing). There really isn't much that our little girl won't try and most times doesn't succeed at. I have had the privilege of sharing with a few prospective families in the past year who were considering a child with Albinism. I want to be open here too so that if someone is searching the internet and stumbles across our blog they will see first hand what our precious little girl can do.
She loved mini-golfing for the first nine holes, after that the novelty wore off and she got bored (totally an age thing). She could not see the hole from the putter point, but as she seemed to catch on quickly that she just needed to swing at the ball and send it somewhere down the green. That became her goal. Eventually tse would get close of enough to the hole that she could sink it. We chose a yellow ball for her figuring it would have the highest contrast, plus it happens to be her favorite color at the moment. She did great and we had fun. She over shot the ball pretty often but we simply didn't count those against her. That may be partially a vision thing, partially an age thing and partially just normal, because we all do it at one time or another.
She loved mini-golfing for the first nine holes, after that the novelty wore off and she got bored (totally an age thing). She could not see the hole from the putter point, but as she seemed to catch on quickly that she just needed to swing at the ball and send it somewhere down the green. That became her goal. Eventually tse would get close of enough to the hole that she could sink it. We chose a yellow ball for her figuring it would have the highest contrast, plus it happens to be her favorite color at the moment. She did great and we had fun. She over shot the ball pretty often but we simply didn't count those against her. That may be partially a vision thing, partially an age thing and partially just normal, because we all do it at one time or another.
Saturday, May 10, 2014
She calls me Mommy.
Mercy calls me mommy. This is a new thing. From the day we met her until just recently I have always been Mama. While it was a word she used to recognize me as a Mama in her life there was always a lack of endearment. Why? Because I knew that she called every other caretaker in China Mama too. That is what Chinese orphan children call those special ladies that meet there needs from day to day. So I was just another Mama to her. So the first time she called me mommy my heart melted. (Actually she calls me "Money.") But I know what she is trying to say and I will take it!!! I know there is a difference in her calling me mama verses mommy. It may seem strange to many, but I really believe in my heart she is recognizing in some way that when my other kids call me mommy there is something different in that word and so she now calls me "Money" too.
The other night she woke up around midnight crying. It was most likely a nightmare. We have had the same scenario countless times before. But as she cried she called out "Money, Money." (deep sigh). As I went into her room to comfort her and assure her mommy was still here and hugged her she took a hold of hand and said "Money pray." This girl never ceases to amaze us. She finds comfort in praying when she is scared, at three years old! Her heart of worship, her heart seeking her Heavenly Daddy changes me for the better. She's such a gift, our little Mercy girl, such a sweet and precious gift.
The other night she woke up around midnight crying. It was most likely a nightmare. We have had the same scenario countless times before. But as she cried she called out "Money, Money." (deep sigh). As I went into her room to comfort her and assure her mommy was still here and hugged her she took a hold of hand and said "Money pray." This girl never ceases to amaze us. She finds comfort in praying when she is scared, at three years old! Her heart of worship, her heart seeking her Heavenly Daddy changes me for the better. She's such a gift, our little Mercy girl, such a sweet and precious gift.
Sunday, March 23, 2014
A Simple Kiss
I am writing tonight because I want to mark a long awaited milestone. Tonight, for the very first time, Mercy impulsively kissed me. She has kissed me a thousand times, but not without some sort of prompting. Whether because I kissed her or because I ask her "can I have a kiss?" or someone else prompting her to "give mommy a kiss." But tonight she was simply sitting on my lap at the kitchen table and out of the clear blue, no prompting what.so.ever, on her own accord leaned in and planted the sweetest, gentlest kiss right on my cheek. I don't know if I can even describe what that moment felt like. It was a wave of emotion. From shock "did she really just do that?" to surprise "oh my word she just spontaneously kissed me at her own will!" to overflowing joy because a new victory was won tonight. It will be 10 months tomorrow that this fragile little girl was hoisted on a plane by two strangers who she barely knew and flown half way around the world to a unfamiliar and foreign land. Ten months of hard work, hardship, hard times intertwined with easy days, good days and moments like tonight. Moments where everything stops, including the beat of your heart because it has just skipped a beat as a surge of joy passes through it. Moments when you remember this kiss from her marks a milestone. It came with a price. She let her guard down tonight and allowed her heart to love, spontaneously. It has taken 10 months of her taking in and testing our love to bring her to a moment where she could lean in a kiss a cheek of someone she is growing to trust and love. I am so so so thankful I get to be that person!!!!! Thank you Jesus for a simple kiss, a memory I will cherish for as long as I live.
Friday, February 14, 2014
Mercy's First Valentine's Day
We have a few Valentine Day traditions at our house that we couldn't wait to share with Mercy this year. Sure it's a "Hallmark" holiday, totally man made, totally a money-making kind of day. But it's still a celebration of love, and who doesn't want to celebrate that?
Making silly faces with her brother, who loves her very much. |
Receiving her very first flower from her Daddy. |
He is smitten with her! |
Pink, heart shaped pancakes made with love by her big sister. |
Yum! |
Chinese New Year
A little past the day, but wanted to post a few pictures of Mercy celebrating her first Chinese New Year with us. We attended a luncheon hosted by Living Hope Adoption Agency. They are the agency that did our home study as well as does our post-adoption follow-up visits and reports. They had it in a banquet hall with a Chinese buffet and brought in some Chinese Dancers.
Mercy with her little friend Brynna |
Mercy reading a Chinese New Year book from her friend Brynna. |
Sunday, January 5, 2014
First Christmas
Mercy's First Christmas
First Christmas Tree outing |
First time seeing Christmas tree lights |
First time on a ladder (sorry, couldn't resist making this one public) |
First Ornament |
First Christmas Tree group photo (notice how happy she is about it) |
First time on a sled, very unsure about this |
First Snowfall, not a fan |
First Christmas Eve gift (PJ's) |
First Christmas Morning wait |
First Christmas stocking |
First Christmas morning sticky bun. YUM!!! |
First time hearing Jesus birth read from the book of Luke |
First present |
Just because |
First birthday cake for Jesus |
And let's not forget her first New Year's Eve! |
What a wonderful Christmas we had this year celebrating our Savior's birth
and celebrating Mercy's First Christmas with us.
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